• Small Biz Life: Do you have a plan?

  • Do you have a plan, or do you just going with the flow?

    Yes, I will confess, I am a more “go with the flow” kind of person, and that works for me…well for the most part.

    I love the energy of shifting gears, multi-tasking and doing what comes next, right up to the part that I am overwhelmed because there is so much on my plate and I don’t know what I am “supposed” to do. Do you ever feel that way?

    Maybe it’s the time of year with all the hustle and bustle of PCS season or maybe it’s just that I have so many AMAZING new things “cooking” for release in the new year, but a few days ago it hit both myself and my business partner right between the eyes. We were in a twirl, spin, spazziness or whatever you want to call it, but we didn’t know which way was up anymore.

    The last few months we have been “going with the flow” and some amazing connections, ideas and shifting has taken place.  It’s was good until we realized that we didn’t have a clear picture of the where to go from here. We were all over the place because we hadn’t created a plan with the new found success.

    It was  an AHA moment when I realized that going with the flow is perfect SOME OF THE TIME, but in order to actually capitalize on all of your hard work, you have to come up with and execute some type of plan.

    So,  kicking and screaming, we had a “New Plan” meeting, and guess what….The spin, twirl and spizziness disappeared!

    I was able to find my focus again, establish some new priorities and projects, and came out of it with a solid “do-able” action plan that will move us forward at lightning speed. No more putting out fires and stressing that something isn’t getting done!

    This whole experience has reminded me that there is a healthy balance that comes with having a plan and leaving room to go with the flow.

    So I ask you….do you have a plan?


    ~Judy Davis, the Direction Diva is a motivational speaker, author and lifestyle blogger as well as a military life and teen suicide prevention expert. Co-founder of DASIUM, Judy’s books Right Side Up  and Warning Signs: Is Your Teen at Riskare go to resources for families and her websites are filled with tips, inspiration and resources for those looking for direction. Connect with Judy at TheDirectionDiva.com


  • “Everyone deserves to realize their fullest potential toward health and well-being, and good mental health care is essential to this”. Dr. Arpan Waghray of Providence St. Joseph Health is also spot on in this video discussing the importance of integrated care toward long-term overall health. The future of healthcare must challenge the way we look at patients and begin integrating [...]

    Read more

    As I browse my social media feeds I notice so many people are fed up and unsure of the direction of their lives. It reminded me of a post I wrote a couple of years ago when my son was stressed about what he would do with his life. Fast forward nothing he even considered was to be his path; life took him in a totally different direction. And it's more than ok not only for him, but for any of us [...]

    Read more

    You may have noticed I've been a little quiet lately.  Between the passing of my mother-in-law, supporting my husband, handling military life and dealing with all the feelings of my own, I haven't had the focus to do much else than the bare necessities. And I have been feeling guilty for taking a much-needed time out from anything that drains me physically or emotionally and just staying in my[...]

    Read more

    Sometimes as we traverse military life it can feel as though we live separately from the outside world. We have our own lingo, we take pride in things others take for granted and our day to day challenges are very different from our civilian counterparts. Because of this we need to build stronger coping skills and hone our self care strategies so that we are prepared - especially for the stuff[...]

    Read more

    Have you ever noticed that sometimes in military life it seems as though every time you turn around someone or something  just keeps getting in the way of your dreams?  It may feel like for every idea you have or action you take there is someone out there telling you it can't be done or how it won't work.  They may even share a suggestion as to how to do it "the right way". After church [...]

    Read more

    As we kick off Mental Health Awareness Month I want to begin with some insight that my son had over the weekend into how social media really steals the joy from our lives. He shares this piece of writing with me and I was struck by how it opened my eyes to the connection between social media and our military mental health. His excerpt highlights the reality of living with the challenges of [...]

    Read more

    1 of page 31