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    Direction Moments Live on Military Relationships – The Challenge of Building Trust

    I’m really excited to bring you the first episode of Direction Moments Live titled Military Relationships – The Challenge of Building Trust. Direction Moments live is a short audio podcast type of post that touches on the issues and challenges we deal with as military spouses. Never more than 15 minutes long they will give you the REAL scoop about finding your way as a military spouse! Raw, to the point and focused on issues that matter to you, DMLive is sure to help you land Right Side Up ! So let’s dive in with today’s topic of military relationships and how they can be challenging both from a physical and emotional viewpoint leaving trust hanging in the balance.…

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    Military Spouse Life: 10 Tips For A Happy Reunion

    Ok so I will preface this post with a) I love my soldier and  b) we have been married for almost 23 years (so I pretty much have said all of this to his handsome face :). But this week I have had SOOO many spouses and friends ask me if their spouse has “LOST HIS EVER LOVIN MIND” that I felt the need to write about the Caveman phenomenon that does occur within the military community. You see I know that there is some young newly married spouse that is wondering what happened to that guy who walked out the door “missing her already”. What happened to the thoughtful caring spouse who was sensitive to the fact…

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    Military Life Newsflash: Your Drama is Toxic

    I just don’t get it. It may be the fact that I have been married to the same man for over 24 years, or that I’m too busy to waste my time and energy on drama, control and unwarranted jealousy, but I’ll never understand the irrational juvenile games that I see in my military life.  Military spouses can be the best battle buddies, we can be strong and independent. But recently I have seen drama that is so toxic that I can’t help but shake my head and wish I could find a way to help them get that this life isn’t just about them – especially for situations like the you better answer…

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    Military Life Series: Bulletproof For A Better Military Marriage – Part 2 (Communication)

    In Part 1 of our discussion on Bulletproofing our Marriages so that they don’t get pummeled by the military lifestyle, we talked about trust and how important it is especially in a military relationship. Today it’s all about communication! Communication is so much more than what we typically think it is.  According to Sandy Fowler, co-creator of the communication product Your 4 Keys[1], when we think of communication we often think of it from a verbal or non verbal point of view.  In fact, the most important part of communication is actually deep within each of us.  It’s the one thing that is “all about you”.  Sounds crazy right, but not when…